F*** The Problem!!!!!!

 

That's right, I said it!  F*** the problem!  There's too much focus on the problem and not enough on the solution.  Everyday someone says that they do not have enough money.  Whether it's to pay bills, buy food, buy clothes, get to work, get home from work, etc.  People talk about their problems all the time, but hardly ever talk about the solutions to those problems.  A female friend was crying about her boyfriend not getting a job, playing video games while she's at work, and spending her money.  Personally, I don't see a hard problem.  Get rid of him and get another guy that works, doesn't play video games daily, and has his own money to spend.  That is a simple solution to a simple problem.  It was crazy because no matter how many times I said what she should do, she just kept on talking about what he doesn't do.  She didn't want to talk about a solution, she just wanted keep talking about that particular problem.  I just find it nuts to only focus on the problem and not the solution.  I know a guy that talks about not having money all the time, but when I talk to him about starting his own business, he wants to say that starting a business is too hard.  I think it's too hard to live a poor life.  I think it's too hard to not be able to feed myself or my family.  It's too hard to not be able to afford a decent living environment.  It's too hard for a lot of things, but starting a business isn't one of them.  I've even talked to him about coming up something to sell, making small investments, writing a book, starting a youtube channel, starting a blog, and a few other things.  Nothing was ever right for him.  I'm just convinced that some people don't want a solution to their problem.  They really just want to talk about the problem and let the problem remain a problem.  Maybe my brain works differently since once a problem is presented, I'm only focused on the solution.  I'm sure there are others like me but I do wonder if society is a 50/50 split on what they focus on?  Maybe 80/20 with the 80% focused on the problem.  I do not want to talk about a problem over and over.  I like to talk about ideas, solutions, plans, agreements, mergers, money making businesses, investments, crypto, motivation, inspiration, courage, and loyalty just to name a few. F*** a problem, talk to me about a solution.  For those that read this, hopefully you are one of those that also say F*** a problem, talk to me about a solution.  If you are not one of us, then hopefully, this can help you.